I watched as Chris struggled to get back into the groove of doing college, and not knowing how else to encourage him I tacked up a sticky note to his computer with this verse...
"Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be afraid, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you; I will help you;
I will hold on to you with My righteous right hand."
In that moment I certainly did not imagine I would be the one to need to draw the most strength from it. I read it each time I sat at my computer. I read it over and over and yet it's words and power did not put out the fires of fear raging inside of me. The older I get the more I really learn about myself, the good and the bad, my strengths and my weaknesses. And yet despite this knowledge I continue to fall prey to the same lies again and again. Satan, our enemy, indeed loves to watch me squirm and fret, loving each moment I feast on his lies. "You are not enough. You are not good enough. You don't measure up. Look at you! It won't work! You are not enough." It started out subtle. Then it became a nagging ache and before I knew it I was experiencing daily headaches, heartburn and hives to top it off!
And yet that sticky note said "Do not fear....." why, "because I am with you." When I was finally ready to admit how awful I had been feeling to my husband and how not enough I felt he lovingly and kindly told me, in a way only a Marine can do, "Your not enough." No I did not make him sleep on the couch that night. It was a stark wake up call! He was absolutely right. He continued to tell me he thought that was the point. We can't do much of anything on our own. Without God's help we will fall on our face, we don't quite measure up and that is OK!
"My grace is sufficent for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." 2Cor. 12:9
I wish I could be so bold as Paul, to say that I am "boasting all the more gladly about my weakness," but I am at the point where I can acknowledge my need for help and be ok with it. Maybe the next time that four letter word tries to work its way in I will be a little wiser to it and be ready to say "for when I am weak, then I am strong" because I know that the Lord's right hand is holding onto me and surely his grip is better than mine.